Working Pick-up Lines

Simple and easy Pick-up Lines are usually the lines that work best. To be honest, Pick-up Lines are just a tool, and it does not matter which lines you use, everything might work in the right context. You just have to learn how to approach someone. Usually the easiest way to approach other people is to be in a good mood, have some fun with friends or to be in a situation where you can easily start a conversation. Great hints for the average flirter are not to be drunk, wear something that makes you stand out of the crowd or to have some gadgets / tools that will help you for a spontaneous conversation.

Tools for the Pick-up Artist

  • Magic – Everyone loves magic tricks and wants to know what is behind that. Coin or card tricks are great to attract women. That’s why so many PuAs practise it.
  • Palm Reading – Great for a first skin contact,where you can have some fun, laugh and satisfy the needs for mystery
  • Pen & Paper – In case you are artsy you can always ask for a quick portrait, or just create one and give it away for free

Usually it’s easy to find something that you are interested in that others find amusing, fun or interesting and can lead to some first conversation. You should not rely on words alone and stand out in the crowd. Which is actually pretty easy in case you have the balls to approach a women sober, have enough attitude to not being pushed around by her and buy her drinks / or give her the attention she usually receives and are comfortable in your own skin. And if you are additionally entertaining  and a fun time to hang around with the whole dating game can become easy. If you just want to use a few Pick-up Lines when you are drunk that will probably not work.

Some ideas for Pick-up Lines

  • Being in a good mood, laughing and having fun with your friends when someone that seems interesting looks at you, it does matter how, just feed of your positive energy: “Hello, nice to meet you. We have this great conversation going and need another perspective, what do you think of (…)”
  • A great move is for example walk past someone or walk towards someone and then when you are about to pass them walk backwards. This is such an untypical behaviour that it will very often break the ice and you can start some sort of conversation. “Hi nice to meet you, we were walking the other way, but you looked like you’d make a nice friend. We are busy right now, but just give me your email so we can get to know each other later on.” Learn to read a situation, have some fun and be natural.

It’s so important to approach people with self confidence in situations where you feel uncomfortable, after all you should not feel uncomfortable at all, it’s natural to find a mate for you and you should NOT be ashamed when you are going for it.

It’s important to learn that it’s not important what others think about you. Wearing clothes others are to shy to wear, doing sports others are scared to do, approaching women or men that others fear to approach just shows that you are a man who has his stuff together. That is what you should aim for.