Pickup Lines that work

Pick-up lines can be very attractive, especially when you  show that you are worthy of recieving attention. To achieve this there have been quite a few general thoughts and ideas, which are deeply rooted in our animals brains. Sometimes people think there is a lot behind a Pick-up Line, or how attraction works, but actually it’s pretty simple. There is the first recognition, where you leave some sort of impression, which may be good or bad, and you should look to leave a positive impression, with loads of self confidence and show that you are great and would be something the other one wants to have.

How does advertising make you want to have things? Make them expensive & beautiful so only very few people can have them, or give them to a selected few and make everybody else want it to show social status.

What does that mean to you? Well you want to be attractive on the one hand, but on the other hand attraction is not just the way you look, it’s the way you are. Looks are great, can help, but overall you win more with a great personality. In case you are interesting your chances grow. In case you got your stuff together, your chances grow. In case there are more people wanting you, your chances grow.

It’s pretty easy, social proof shows that you are capable to be a great mate, which would ultimately leed to some sort of sexual affair to produce some off-springs. It’s just how nature works.

You are always looking for the best possible mate, and you get better when you have something to give and others want you. The more people wanting you, the more will want you as well. Just because you see to be such a hot shot.

Now, how does this work for attraction and attractive Pick-up Lines?

Pretty easy, once you start a conversation with a Pick-up Line, which can be as simple as “Hi.” You are usually running into some sort of testing to find out if you have potential to be a future mate. The more often someone is approached the harder the tests will be. It’s just some sort of natural selection and a lot of people start avoiding public places, because they are simply tired of people not matching their expectations. It’s not that the other one wants you to fail, the goal is that you succeed, but you have to offer more than just some ordinary pick-up line. In case you have a great personality, which is just doing what you like, living a life you enjoy and having passion for certain things and voicing your opinion in a smart and intellectual manner, everything will take it’s path. Approach anxiety is usually rooted within the fear of rejection and totally over-exaggerated thoughts of what might happen. Once you just start to make your life more fun and stop caring about what others think about you, everything will be easier.

Someone does not like you? Who cares, he misses some spectacular new friend.

Someone puts you off? There are a few billion people on the world… who cares what that guy thinks?

Overall it just does not matter, breaking out of old, long learned habits is a hard task and you can’t do it all at once. Learn to make small steps in the right direction every day.

You have a hard time approaching people? Make it your goal to talk to 15 strangers in a month. Supermarket, Bus Stop, Work, Cafe… Whatever, not Pickup Lines, simple and fun smalltalk.

You know how to approach people, but don’t know where to go from then? Simply learn it. Don’t fear losing and don’t act like someone who bitterly needs something. That’s not sexy.

You want to look better? Get a new haircut, start working out, start some fun new trend sport,….

Whatever it is you are bad at, just reflect how you can improve what you are doing, all the small steps. You want to use a magical Pick-up Line? Sorry that’s not going to work. It’s hard work, reflecting your process, thinking about what you are doing and asking yourself the right questions to improve.

A great way, in case you think you are rather boring or geeky, to improve your personality is to get a few books about stuff you never cared about, but that sound interesting and start to read about 20 pages each night before you go to be. 20 Pages in 30 day and you have finished a mid sized book. Watch documentaries, read new, look at gossip. Learn to be attractive through gaining a higher self-value.

To pick up someone [Slang] means to interact with someone of sexual interest, who is probably a stranger at the start of the conversation, with the intention of a ultimately having a romantic relation with that person.

A Pickup Line is an opening line used to start a conversation with someone who could be a potential mate. The use of a pickup line normally depends on the character of the usually male aproacher and is used to select the type of woman the man is looking for. Recent researches have found out that different personalities react to different methods. Which is very interesting due to the relation to selection processes done by man and woman to succeed at finding the right partner to mate.

Overall those researches of Chat-up lines, which is British English for Pickup Lines, seem to indicated that the best way to approach people is to make them laugh. Don’t be a joke and make a fool of yourself, just be funny and self-confident.

Here is a rough overgeneralization for the 4 types of men women see when they are approached with Pickup Lines, which are the Nice guy, the Provider, the Leader and the Bad Boy. There is no need to go into detail, you can read those researches up in the whole somewhere else, let’s just make clear that in case you are looking for a healthy relationship being, not acting like, the leader should be the way to go.

A leader has self confidence, class, humor and most important knows what he wants. The easiest way to display those traits is through funny lines showing you got your act together.
You probably always heard, be yourself and everything will work out. This quote is one of the truest things ever said, but you have to know yourself before you can be yourself. Find out what you like and dislike, develop some skills and first of all, learn to be funny and playful.

Overall it does not matter how you approach a woman, there are different types of ladies that fall for different lines, which is just some kind of pre selection and should not be taken personally. In case a woman searches a leader and you are just a nice guy, you can only learn how to be a leader. It’s natural selection that is taking the lead here.

Let’s sum this up
In case you want to create an easy pickup line, make it a funny one. In case you want to succeed you have to learn how to be self confident enough to make that line work.
Some examples of applied Pickup Lines can be found in the article Quotes to start a conversation.