Pickup Lines that make her day
Pick up lines are great. Especially when they are fun for the one who says them and for the person who hears them. After all, picking up is about having fun and not getting rejection after rejection. Even though there are a lot of pick up artists that say you have to go through a lot of rejections and that it is a numbers game, the best pick up artists are the guys who go out and enjoy themselves. You can not fake the funk and it’s important to develop enough social skill so you won’t get slapped. Learning how to be funny, charming and entertaining will give you a great deal of confidence and gaining access to these skills usually does not come from field experience. It’s a factor, but you have to learn to be interesting. You need something to talk about, hobbies that are entertaining and display your value. No matter if you are a professionell surfer, fight in MMA or simply know math, there are always ways to make these skills social. Weather it be due to skills developed, games derived or a physical apperance.
No matter what you do: Fun comes first. You should not give people the feeling of wanting to run away from you. Sure a bit of cocky and funny does not hurt, and you should not be a clown. That’s where the field experience comes into play. You don’t have to learn it in hardcore situations, you can start out slow at places where you are forced to have contact. If you have problem approaching someone start with people who are paid to be nice. Flirt everywhere. Make it light. Ask for the weather. Make smalltalk, develop skills that have been neglected before. It’s not that hard. Learn to read the body language. You know how to read it as we have it wired in, and you should learn to respect it. There are different signs that someone feels comfortable, or feels repelled. You can’t teach a cat to catch the mice, it’s wired in. Humans have the big disadvantage that their brains always come into play and make them act stupid. Learn to trust your instincts. Learn to hear when a no means no. Learn the body language and don’t go out with the intention to hurt someone just cause you had a hard time growing up. Learn to take it light.
How to do it:
- Pick up a hobby where you interact with plenty of women
- Take up a sport that will help you becoming a better man such as fighting
- Develop a feeling for your body through exercise, dancing and reflecting your inner self.
- Understand how people tick and what makes them reject you, try to imagine how you come across to others and what will repell them.
- Be yourself and don’t try to fake to be something that you are not, simply work on your goals and how you want to be and you will naturally become it