Easy Pickup Lines for Everyone

Want to use that killer Pick-up Line you found, but don’t know how? Here is your 10 Step program to approach any woman you want to. It’s pretty rough outlined and probably you will need some time to realize how easy it actually is, but once you know what to do, it becomes a piece of cake.

1. Find a line you like
2. Find a place where you want to approach someone, for example a mall, grocery store, cafe, club, in the street, wherever you like.
3. Now think about the skills that are required to approach someone in that setting. Is there something special required to approach someone? Probably not.
4. Think about how you can make that happen, what do you have to learn?
5. Imagine the worst things that could possibly happen! What stops you from approaching that woman?
6. Think about how realistic those things are!
7. Realize that the worst thing that might happen could be a slap in the face, or a boyfriend, but did you really intend to act like a jerk and try to wrestle her down? Usually the worst thing that might happen is that she is not interested. You can always back off.
8. You don’t have to fear rejection, be comfortable and just have a good time.
9. Learn to not drink more than 1 alcoholic drink before you approach someone, being drunk and not having the balls to approach sober is just a major turnoff to most chicks.
10. Go out and have fun. Start small. Small steps done over a long period will usually provide a working system instead of leaping across a big cliff and struggling. Rather learn to approach women with the intention to have a good time and nothing more than that. It’s contra productive to try to get someone for a one night stand or relationship when you are just starting out. You will usually behave needy and won’t perform as well.

Approaching is actually pretty easy, just start small. Ask for the time, smile and make some smalltalk, learn that most people are actually not offended when someone talks to them at the right moment. They are usually just offended when they are not in the mood to be approached and that’s something you should not be angry about. You can even use it for your game when you have really advanced skills.

Pick-up lines can be very attractive, especially when you  show that you are worthy of recieving attention. To achieve this there have been quite a few general thoughts and ideas, which are deeply rooted in our animals brains. Sometimes people think there is a lot behind a Pick-up Line, or how attraction works, but actually it’s pretty simple. There is the first recognition, where you leave some sort of impression, which may be good or bad, and you should look to leave a positive impression, with loads of self confidence and show that you are great and would be something the other one wants to have.

How does advertising make you want to have things? Make them expensive & beautiful so only very few people can have them, or give them to a selected few and make everybody else want it to show social status.

What does that mean to you? Well you want to be attractive on the one hand, but on the other hand attraction is not just the way you look, it’s the way you are. Looks are great, can help, but overall you win more with a great personality. In case you are interesting your chances grow. In case you got your stuff together, your chances grow. In case there are more people wanting you, your chances grow.

It’s pretty easy, social proof shows that you are capable to be a great mate, which would ultimately leed to some sort of sexual affair to produce some off-springs. It’s just how nature works.

You are always looking for the best possible mate, and you get better when you have something to give and others want you. The more people wanting you, the more will want you as well. Just because you see to be such a hot shot.

Now, how does this work for attraction and attractive Pick-up Lines?

Pretty easy, once you start a conversation with a Pick-up Line, which can be as simple as “Hi.” You are usually running into some sort of testing to find out if you have potential to be a future mate. The more often someone is approached the harder the tests will be. It’s just some sort of natural selection and a lot of people start avoiding public places, because they are simply tired of people not matching their expectations. It’s not that the other one wants you to fail, the goal is that you succeed, but you have to offer more than just some ordinary pick-up line. In case you have a great personality, which is just doing what you like, living a life you enjoy and having passion for certain things and voicing your opinion in a smart and intellectual manner, everything will take it’s path. Approach anxiety is usually rooted within the fear of rejection and totally over-exaggerated thoughts of what might happen. Once you just start to make your life more fun and stop caring about what others think about you, everything will be easier.

Someone does not like you? Who cares, he misses some spectacular new friend.

Someone puts you off? There are a few billion people on the world… who cares what that guy thinks?

Overall it just does not matter, breaking out of old, long learned habits is a hard task and you can’t do it all at once. Learn to make small steps in the right direction every day.

You have a hard time approaching people? Make it your goal to talk to 15 strangers in a month. Supermarket, Bus Stop, Work, Cafe… Whatever, not Pickup Lines, simple and fun smalltalk.

You know how to approach people, but don’t know where to go from then? Simply learn it. Don’t fear losing and don’t act like someone who bitterly needs something. That’s not sexy.

You want to look better? Get a new haircut, start working out, start some fun new trend sport,….

Whatever it is you are bad at, just reflect how you can improve what you are doing, all the small steps. You want to use a magical Pick-up Line? Sorry that’s not going to work. It’s hard work, reflecting your process, thinking about what you are doing and asking yourself the right questions to improve.

A great way, in case you think you are rather boring or geeky, to improve your personality is to get a few books about stuff you never cared about, but that sound interesting and start to read about 20 pages each night before you go to be. 20 Pages in 30 day and you have finished a mid sized book. Watch documentaries, read new, look at gossip. Learn to be attractive through gaining a higher self-value.

Simple and easy Pick-up Lines are usually the lines that work best. To be honest, Pick-up Lines are just a tool, and it does not matter which lines you use, everything might work in the right context. You just have to learn how to approach someone. Usually the easiest way to approach other people is to be in a good mood, have some fun with friends or to be in a situation where you can easily start a conversation. Great hints for the average flirter are not to be drunk, wear something that makes you stand out of the crowd or to have some gadgets / tools that will help you for a spontaneous conversation.

Tools for the Pick-up Artist

• Magic - Everyone loves magic tricks and wants to know what is behind that. Coin or card tricks are great to attract women. That’s why so many PuAs practise it.
• Palm Reading - Great for a first skin contact,where you can have some fun, laugh and satisfy the needs for mystery
• Pen & Paper - In case you are artsy you can always ask for a quick portrait, or just create one and give it away for free

Usually it’s easy to find something that you are interested in that others find amusing, fun or interesting and can lead to some first conversation. You should not rely on words alone and stand out in the crowd. Which is actually pretty easy in case you have the balls to approach a women sober, have enough attitude to not being pushed around by her and buy her drinks / or give her the attention she usually receives and are comfortable in your own skin. And if you are additionally entertaining  and a fun time to hang around with the whole dating game can become easy. If you just want to use a few Pick-up Lines when you are drunk that will probably not work.

Some ideas for Pick-up Lines

• Being in a good mood, laughing and having fun with your friends when someone that seems interesting looks at you, it does matter how, just feed of your positive energy: “Hello, nice to meet you. We have this great conversation going and need another perspective, what do you think of (…)”
• A great move is for example walk past someone or walk towards someone and then when you are about to pass them walk backwards. This is such an untypical behaviour that it will very often break the ice and you can start some sort of conversation. “Hi nice to meet you, we were walking the other way, but you looked like you’d make a nice friend. We are busy right now, but just give me your email so we can get to know each other later on.” Learn to read a situation, have some fun and be natural.

It’s so important to approach people with self confidence in situations where you feel uncomfortable, after all you should not feel uncomfortable at all, it’s natural to find a mate for you and you should NOT be ashamed when you are going for it.

It’s important to learn that it’s not important what others think about you. Wearing clothes others are to shy to wear, doing sports others are scared to do, approaching women or men that others fear to approach just shows that you are a man who has his stuff together. That is what you should aim for.

There are pickup lines that are just nasty, being cocky is great, making some funny remarks is great as well, but damn, do some people really use those lines? Sometimes it’s better to learn to be funny and playful than to hurt someone else with something like that. It would be understandable when the person performing such a line would be at least slapped in the face.

When we say that a Pick-up Line is just a conversation opener and it does not matter what you say that’s not totally right. There is stuff you should not say unless you are looking for trouble. Stay away from lines like this. DON’T USE LINES LIKE THIS! NEVER!

*approaching a smoking girl*
It’s your lucky day, I can help you quit smoking!
How?
I got something else to suck for you.

Could you please turn around so I don’t have to look at you when I talk to your friend?

Nice piece of ass, is it occupied in 15 minutes? I’d be free to use it then!

You are one dirty girl, no I don’t mean nasty, you just need a shower. Want to take one at my place?

Nice shoes and hair, where is that clown nose to make the costume perfect?

Wow did you look in a mirror today?
Yes.
How could you dare to go out then?

Can I get a kiss?
No.
My lucky day, let’s have a drink with the money I won. I had a bet with my friends in the back there that you would not kiss me even though you look like you haven’t been laid for years.

Wow you have the same nice shoes like my wife! Wanna fuck?

Wow those long legs …*little pause*… The strok did not only bring you, he had a fun time with ya mom as well eh?

I am a scout for Movieactors, you seriously have the potential to be a psycho bitch cheating on her husband.

I like everything about you, hair, eyes, even every bone in your body, especially mine.