10 Steps to overcome Approach Anxiety

Want to use that killer Pick-up Line you found, but don’t know how? Here is your 10 Step program to approach any woman you want to. It’s pretty rough outlined and probably you will need some time to realize how easy it actually is, but once you know what to do, it becomes a piece of cake.

  1. Find a line you like
  2. Find a place where you want to approach someone, for example a mall, grocery store, cafe, club, in the street, wherever you like.
  3. Now think about the skills that are required to approach someone in that setting. Is there something special required to approach someone? Probably not.
  4. Think about how you can make that happen, what do you have to learn?
  5. Imagine the worst things that could possibly happen! What stops you from approaching that woman?
  6. Think about how realistic those things are!
  7. Realize that the worst thing that might happen could be a slap in the face, or a boyfriend, but did you really intend to act like a jerk and try to wrestle her down? Usually the worst thing that might happen is that she is not interested. You can always back off.
  8. You don’t have to fear rejection, be comfortable and just have a good time.
  9. Learn to not drink more than 1 alcoholic drink before you approach someone, being drunk and not having the balls to approach sober is just a major turnoff to most chicks.
  10. Go out and have fun. Start small. Small steps done over a long period will usually provide a working system instead of leaping across a big cliff and struggling. Rather learn to approach women with the intention to have a good time and nothing more than that. It’s contra productive to try to get someone for a one night stand or relationship when you are just starting out. You will usually behave needy and won’t perform as well.

Approaching is actually pretty easy, just start small. Ask for the time, smile and make some smalltalk, learn that most people are actually not offended when someone talks to them at the right moment. They are usually just offended when they are not in the mood to be approached and that’s something you should not be angry about. You can even use it for your game when you have really advanced skills.